'A benefit to having a stroke is the stories that I get to hear from people.' --@SmithImpact #stroke #PublicSpeaking
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I talked to Pete in 2019. His message then resonates even more today as we've gone through the pandemic and get ready to see if another pandemic is right around the corner. Life is short and the time to build a life of impact is now.
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I was listening to Grant Baldwin's show "The Speaker Lab" one day when he was interviewing a guest who's focus was on how you can build a life in such a way to have an impact on the world. The guest came to have this perspective sitting on the kitchen floor having just suffered a stroke. Of course, my ears instantly perked up, and I knew I wanted to have Pete Smith on Strokecast to share his journey.
If you don't see the audio player below, visit https://Strokecast.com/Impact to listen to the conversation.
There are a number of valuable insights in this discussion.
We talk about the importance of language. We get to define our own context and choose how we see the world. Are you a stroke victim or a stroke survivor? Is this the end of life or the beginning of a new type of life? Am I an unemployed middle-aged brain damaged cripple or a young, entrepreneurial survivor sharing a story of adversity and helping others along their own journey?
The words we choose to define our context can expand or limit our future. It's up to us.
'The keynote isn't about the stroke. The keynote is about what the stroke taught me.' --@SmithImpact #stroke #PublicSpeaking
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Another thing that's important is the significance of sharing our stories to connect with one another. Pete shares his initial surprise about how when he started talking about his stroke, he got more audience engagement. Folks would come up to him after the talk to share their own stroke or stroke adjacent stories.
That's one of the reasons I started this show to begin with - I want to help connect folks through the power of storytelling and sharing one another's stories. I firmly believe that the growth of social media and the importance of representation in traditional media is rooted in a fundamental human need to be heard. To be seen. To have an impact on the world outside of ourselves.
Pete is an international speaker and coach in the fields of leadership, management, personal growth and development. His energetic, edgy, and interactive style is complimented by his ability to provide practical takeaways that actually work, while having a little fun in the process.
He is the author of Dare to Matter*, which hit the best seller list in the Business Motivation and Self-Improvement category in 2017.
Having a stroke at the age of 35, Pete has since used that experience to inspire, educate, and entertain audiences throughout the world on the importance of pursuing significance in their personal and professional lives. As he says, "If you relentlessly pursue success and happiness in your life, you are settling for far less than what you were created for."
'What does that actually mean? To live in a very significant way?' --@SmithImpact #stroke #PublicSpeaking
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Married to an incredible wife, proud dad of two amazing boys, and part-time chew toy for an Irish Setter, Pete resides in Arlington, VA.
Managing life, relationships, appointments, accessibility needs, etc. can be a challenge. The way we approach those challenges is up to us. Reframe the context in which you find yourself. Change the language in your internal monologue, and you can change the thing that you accomplish. You can change what comes from treatment, and you can change the things you encounter in the rest of your life.
'What we make that event mean is entirely up to us.' --@SmithImpact #stroke #PublicSpeaking
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'During the stroke, when I thought I had a minute left to live, I didn't think about success or happiness at all.' --@SmithImpact #stroke #PublicSpeaking
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'If you feel you are a stroke victim, you will stay a stroke victim.' --@SmithImpact #stroke #PublicSpeaking
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Strokecast is the stroke podcast where a Gen X stroke survivor explores rehab, recovery, the frontiers of neuroscience and one-handed banana peeling by helping stroke survivors, caregivers, medical providers and stroke industry affiliates connect and share their stories.
Bill Monroe is not a doctor or medical professional of any sort. He's just a marketing guy who now knows way more about neurology and neuroplasticity than any marketing guy should know.
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